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Transform Your Child's Daily Defiance into Willing Cooperation without Yelling, Bribes, or Punishment
Use This Proven 30 Day Program to Build Trust, End Battles, and Raise Self-Motivated Kids
You know the daily battles aren't working.
Simple requests are ignored. Leaving home becomes a negotiation. Every boundary turns into a power struggle.
Maybe it's just a phase... they'll grow out of it soon, right?
Wrong. The truth is, when you don't address it, these behaviors only intensify. What looks like defiance at 4 becomes full-blown opposition at 14.
But what if I told you that "defiant behavior" isn't behavior at all?
What if those daily battles are actually your child's way of telling you something important...
The Hidden Truth That Changes Everything
Here's what most parents never realize: Your child's challenging behavior isn't rebellion or defiance. It's communication.
Behind every meltdown, every power struggle... they're telling you about an unmet need they can't put into words.
It doesn't matter if they're 2 or 12. All children (and many adults) struggle to identify and express their feelings and needs.
When you hear and respond to what they're really asking for, everything changes. This explains...
...Why Old-School Approaches Keep Failing You
(And Harm Your Relationship)
When your child's nervous system is dysregulated—when their "thinking brain" goes offline—cooperation becomes impossible. No matter how many consequences you give.
Yet most parents double down on the wrong approaches:
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Yelling floods your child's nervous system with stress hormones.
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Bribes teach children to cooperate only when there's something in it for them.
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Punishment creates compliance through fear, not understanding.
A dysregulated brain can't reason or cooperate—it's stuck in survival mode.
Here's what's actually behind challenging behavior:
The 6 Unmet Needs Behind "Difficult" Behavior
As well as safety, honesty, and physical well-being, all children have 6 core needs. When these needs aren't met, they can't tell you directly.
Instead, they show you through their behavior:
| When They Lack... | They Show This By | What They Actually Need |
|---|---|---|
| Connection | Ignoring your requests | Presence and acknowledgment + partnership in the task |
| Understanding | Having big emotions they can't calm down from | Help processing their feelings + validation that their emotions make sense |
| Meaning | Saying "I don't want to" | To understand why the task matters + feel capable of doing it |
| Autonomy | Whining and complaining | Some choices within your boundaries + acknowledgment of their preferences |
| Peace | Bedtime battles and stalling | More predictable routines + a calmer environment |
| Play | Being grumpy | Lightness and fun woven into daily tasks + moments of silliness together |
Knowing this changes everything.
When you stop fighting behavior and instead start meeting needs, defiance disappears...
That's What We Solve With...
Calm & Cooperative: The LOVING Approach
The 30 Day Video Program That Addresses ALL Six Parts of Peaceful, Cooperative Parenting
This isn't another parenting theory course.
This 30-day program shows you how to decode your child's behavior, meet their underlying needs, and build the cooperation you've been hoping for.
From yelling and bribes to calm, confident responses that actually work.
Here's what's inside...
30 Daily Videos & Cheat Sheets That Transform Your Home
You're drowning in parenting advice, and you don't have 10 hours to watch another course.
You need something that fits into real life.
You'll get instant access to 30 ten-minute videos with actionable strategies for your biggest parenting challenges. Designed to be consumed one per day or binge-watched all at once.
Instead of punishment, rewards, or control, you'll address what's really driving behavior and build genuine cooperation.
And at the end of each video, you get simple homework that delivers immediate results - because implementation is half the battle when learning something new.
Best of all, this is all neatly organized into a daily cheat sheet. Print them out and have them on hand. Never forget a parenting tip again...
Meet Your Expert Hosts
Pamela Quiery MSc
Parenting Expert & Mother
I'm a certified parent coach and mum to two wonderfully challenging kids. I know what it’s like to end the day in guilt and exhaustion, wondering what went wrong.
I used to rely on control but everything changed when I discovered the power of connection, self-regulation, and clear, consistent limits.
Now I help other parents move from shouting and self-doubt to calm, confident connection. You don't need to be perfect, you just need the right tools and support.
Joshua Dunlop
Course Creator & Father
I'm the founder of FamilyFriends and father to two young children. As I navigate my own parenting journey, I understand the gap between knowing what to do and actually doing it.
I've spent the last 15 years creating online courses for photographers that get exceptional results.
I partnered with Pamela to bring my expertise in creating courses that deliver immediate, practical results to parenting.
What You'll Get With The LOVING Approach
We Organise Our Training into 6 Key Parts
📚 Limits Held with Love
Our schools and parents had it backwards: the most powerful limits are held with connection, not control.
When your child's brain is offline, demands like "Be good" simply bounce off them. What they really need is co-regulation instead of consequences.
These 5 days will transform your approach so your child's meltdowns become opportunities for deeper connection. Your home will shift from a battlefield into a sanctuary of mutual respect and cooperation.
🤝 One-on-One Moments
Your undivided attention is more powerful than any reward, consequence, or behavior strategy.
Yet most parents accidentally use their attention in ways that actually increase attention-seeking behavior. Ten minutes of child-led time eliminates hours of whining, resistance, and power struggles.
These 5 days will decode what your child's behavior is really communicating. Plus you'll master the art of repairing after conflicts, and discover how your presence becomes the foundation that makes everything else work.
❤️ Validate Feelings
Many parents inadvertently dismiss their child's emotions with well-intentioned words like "It's OK".
When children don't feel heard, they escalate until someone pays attention. But when you learn to honor feelings instead of fixing them, something magical happens: cooperation flows naturally from a child who feels truly understood.
These 5 days teach you to become a safe harbor for your child's emotional storms. You'll end exhausting battles. And start to see meltdowns as healthy release valves that strengthen your bond when handled with care.
🌟 Intrinsic Motivation
Praise and rewards seem helpful, but they're secretly undermining your child's natural desire to cooperate and learn.
External motivators create children who only behave when there's something in it for them. The most self-motivated children have parents who tap into something far more powerful: their child's innate drive to contribute and grow.
These 5 days show you how to nurture cooperation that comes from within. You'll replace praise that breaks with feedback that builds, and start to model the life you want them to live. The result? Children who cooperate because it feels good.
🧠 Nervous System Reset
Your triggers and your child's meltdowns are connected—when you're dysregulated, they become dysregulated, creating an exhausting cycle of reactivity.
Breaking this pattern isn't about becoming a perfect parent; it's about understanding how both your nervous systems work... A calm parent creates a calm child, while a stressed parent amplifies challenging behavior.
These 5 days give you the tools to interrupt this cycle. You'll identify your triggers before they hijack you, and learn to co-regulate so that big emotions become opportunities for connection instead of chaos.
🔄 Groove & Routine
Rigid schedules create power struggles and chaotic homes create anxiety. But there's a sweet spot that most families never find.
Children crave predictability, not perfection. When you create flexible rhythms instead of rigid routines, you give them the security they need while honoring the reality that some days require adaptation.
These 5 days show you how to build structure without stress. You'll end transition battles, let timers handle the limits, and weave connection into your week.
+3 Powerful Bonuses That Go Even Deeper
🎁 The LOVING Approach Companion Guide ($99.00 value)
This 300+ page ebook is a reference for the entire system:
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Full written version of all 30 days of video content
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In-depth explanations you can review at your own pace
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Perfect for partners, caregivers, or when you prefer reading
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Searchable PDF format for quick reference
Learn your way and share the approach with everyone who cares for your child.
🎁 The Parent's Guide to a Child's Brain ($99.00 value)
37-minute masterclass simplifying the neuroscience behind challenging behavior:
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Brain States Decoded: Why your child's "thinking brain" goes offline and how to recognize it
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The Full Backpack Theory: How daily stressors add up until the smallest thing triggers a meltdown
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Co-Regulation: Become your child's calm anchor, using your nervous system to soothe theirs
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Connection vs. Control: Why responding with empathy (not punishment) builds self-regulation
Transform your understanding of behavior from "what's wrong with you?" to "how can I help you?" and watch cooperation flow.
🎁 Bedtime Battles & Smooth Transitions ($99.00 value)
This addresses the most common daily challenges:
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The Root Cause: Why disconnection (not defiance) drives bedtime resistance
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Neuroscience of Cooperation: Get your child's "thinking brain" back online with connection and play
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Age-Specific Playful Solutions: From silly toothbrush voices to pre-bedtime physical play
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Beyond Bedtime: Apply these principles to playground departures, morning routines, and any difficult transition
Transform your most exhausting daily moments into opportunities for connection and cooperation.
Is This Perfect For you?
You’ve read this far because you can feel it in your gut: There has to be a better way.
That means moving beyond the cycle of yelling, bribes, punishments and threats.
The big question is... what do you do instead?
This is NOT For You if:
❌ You believe that control and punishment are the only effective tools a parent has.
❌ You believe that showing kindness during a tantrum is the same as "rewarding bad behaviour."
❌ You're looking for a quick fix that doesn't require you to look at your own triggers.
This IS For You if:
✅ You want to learn how to be both FIRM with your limits and KIND with your response.
✅ You believe that a deep connection is the true foundation for willing cooperation.
✅ You're tired of guessing and just need a clear, step-by-step plan for what to do and say.
✅ You're ready to become the calm, confident parent you've always wanted to be.
You Have 2 Choices...
#1: Keep things as they are.
Just trying to get through your day with the house and family in one piece.
#2: A 30 day transformation.
Imagine your child choosing to cooperate... because they feel heard, understood, and connected to you.
This isn't just about better behavior. It's about the relationship you're building for life.
The teenager who comes to you with problems. The confident self-motivated person you want them to become. That foundation starts now.
The LOVING Approach Has Everything You Need for a Peaceful Home
L – Limits Held with Love
$99.00
O – One-on-One Moments
$99.00
V – Validate Feelings
$99.00
I – Intrinsic Motivation
$99.00
N – Nervous System Reset
$99.00
G – Groove & Routine
$99.00
30 Printable Action Card Cheat Sheets
$199.00
Total Value:
$793.00
Plus... you're also getting these essential bonuses:
The LOVING Approach Companion Guide
$99.00
The Parent's Guide to a Child's Brain
$99.00
Bedtime Battles & Smooth Transitions
$99.00
Total Value:
$297.00
A combined value of $1,090.00
But you won't be paying $1,090.00 today. You won't even be paying $499.00. Or even half of that.
It's Yours Today For Just $99 🔥
But hurry! Only the first 500 copies are discounted!
Save $991 before the countdown ends.
There's Something You Need to Know
(Please Read This Carefully)
This course is heavily discounted for the first 500 customers before we change the price to what we feel it's worth: $299 per year.
In exchange for this massive discount, all we ask is that you leave an honest review when you complete the program.
Think about it... Pamela's private coaching costs 10x more than today's price. Plus you're getting cheat sheets, a companion guide, and 2 other bonuses worth hundreds separately.
This is your only chance for lifetime access at $99. No recurring fees. No subscriptions. No expiration.
Once we hit 500 customers, this offer disappears forever.
90-Day Money-Back Guarantee
We believe so strongly in "The LOVING Approach" that we're offering TWO industry-leading guarantees.
Guarantee #1: If you don't think this is the most practical parenting system you've ever used... send us an email within 90 days. We'll provide you with a full refund – no questions asked.
Guarantee #2: If you DO the daily homework and you don't see a transformation in cooperation, we'll refund double your money. All we ask is that you give it an honest effort.
How's that for confidence in our method?
...Why Old-School Approaches Keep Failing You
(And Harm Your Relationship)
When your child's nervous system is dysregulated—when their "thinking brain" goes offline—cooperation becomes impossible. No matter how many consequences you give.
Yet most parents double down on the wrong approaches:
-
Yelling floods your child's nervous system with stress hormones.
-
Bribes teach children to cooperate only when there's something in it for them.
-
Punishment creates compliance through fear, not understanding.
A dysregulated brain can't reason or cooperate—it's stuck in survival mode.
Here's what's actually behind challenging behavior:
One Month From Today, Things Can Be Different
You're at a crossroads.
Keep going down the same path—more daily battles, more yelling.
Or choose a new one.
Imagine, 30 days from now, you're not fighting to get shoes on. You're sharing a silly moment on the way out the door.
Imagine your child, instead of melting down, accepting a hug.
Feeling safe. Feeling understood.
Imagine ending your day feeling proud and connected.
This isn't a fantasy. It's a plan.
Stop managing behaviour. Start meeting needs.
The choice is yours.
